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Beginning Holiday Traditions With Your Kids

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Beginning Holiday Traditions With Your Kids

HappiFamli, Senior Nostalgia Correspondent

December 22, 2018

Do you have fond memories of holiday traditions that you looked forward to each year? For many of us, the holidays trigger nostalgia for our childhoods as we remember the fun activities we partook in with our families and friends. For others, a lack of tradition also drives us to want to begin them with our own kids. Here is a great list of some of our favorite holiday traditions to partake in with your family and friends this year. 

When we think of holidays during our childhood, many of us have nostalgic memories filled with activities we used to partake in with family and friends. Because of this, we might aspire to create the same types of memories with our own families. If you’re looking for some fun holiday magic with your kids this season, here are some of our favorite traditions:

Baking Cookies. One of the simplest traditions also helps get your kids comfortable in the kitchen to create treats for friends, family, and teachers. Cookies are a fun, easy way to bond and instill the tradition of giving. Pick up some cute mason jars and tie with ribbon for a cost effective present, or divvy up batches to hand out to neighbors. Whatever the end result, baking during the holidays is not only tradition, but it’s a kind gesture.

Decorating Ornaments. Have your children decorate ornaments themselves, either by stuffing and painting glass balls or creating ornaments out of Sculpey or gingerbread. They can also give them as gifts to family and teachers! Put on some holiday music, too, and decorate the Christmas tree together. You’ll have fun reminiscing over ornaments from years past as you unpack them.

Volunteering. No matter which holidays you celebrate, we can all agree that giving back to those in need is a beautiful tradition to start with your children. Here in Austin, we love Generation Serve, an organization whose mission is to engage children of all ages in volunteering around our community. Each month they post calendars with openings for volunteer spots. Consider making it a holiday (and yearround!) tradition to give back with your kids.

Visit Santa Clause. If you celebrate Christmas, consider visiting Santa Clause with your kids! It’s one of those fun traditions that we often remember as children, whether we were terrified or delighted by him. Kids have fun asking Santa for specific wishlist items, and the fun holiday pictures will be treasured for years.

Shop for Kids in Need. Consider adopting a child in need through one of Austin’s many great organizations. Shop with your kids and reiterate the importance of giving back.

Holiday Movie Marathons. If you’re a Christmas lover, there are so many great films out there! Consider doing a 12 days of Christmas countdown with your family, where you watch a Christmas movie together (or part of one!) each evening leading up to the big day. You’ll be surprised how well kids remember their favorites for years to come.

Advent Calendar. You don’t have to go crazy here! Many moms prefer making their own, but Trader Joe’s has adorable ones for just 99 cents. Kids love opening up the door each day leading to Christmas, and it’s a fun way to count down.

Playing Dreidel. Leading up to and during Hanukkah, teach your children the game of Dreidel. Use chocolate gold coins to make it even more fun!

Matching Holiday Pajamas. These might be one of my favorites on the list. Hanna Andersson has soft and adorable options, which are our family’s favorite. Opening gifts together in our pajamas is always a fun treat, and I love the photo ops.

Are any of these traditions on your list? What is your favorite holiday tradition with your kids?

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Giving the gift of experience this Holiday season is awesome

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Giving the gift of experience this Holiday season

HappiFamli, Senior Holidays Correspondent

December 6, 2018

There’s a lot of pressure each holiday to find the perfect gift for everyone on your wish list. What if you took a different approach this season and sought experiences over tangible items? We think experience gifts are valuable for the entire family, providing kids with enrichment and memories that last for many years to come. Here are the reasons why we think you should consider them. 

We’re all guilty of it. Our kids create wish lists, and despite our best efforts to make the season about so much more than gifts, somehow gifts become a central part of the holidays. After all, giving and receiving gifts is fun! In fact, giving someone a gift I know they’ll love is one of my favorite parts of the holidays. One central parenting theme we’ve all experienced, though, is the feeling of too much stuff. It’s why minimalism is so appealing for many, as well as why people are shifting away from present overload. Experiences are priceless, and the memories from them last a lifetime. In six months, you won’t remember that Hatchimal sitting in the corner collecting dust, but you’re sure to remember the movie you saw together, the indoor skydiving session, or the trip to the zoo. This holiday season, here are some reasons why you should consider experience gifts for your kids:

We are drowning in “stuff.” According to the LA Times, the average American home has over 300,000 items in it, and at least one in ten Americans uses a storage unit. Our culture is stuck in the perpetual cycle of “more equals better” – more clothes, more toys, and more household goods. Still not convinced? Consider this statistic: the US has 3% of the world’s children, yet 40% of the world’s toys. We’ll let that sink in for a moment. A lot of us are reporting rising rates of anxiety, and clutter might be a contributing factor. Here’s yet another great reason to cut it!

It’s Healthy for Your Family. Experience gifts are more than just experiences — they’re an opportunity for family bonding. Did you know that family bonding and the strengthening of relationships results in fewer behavioral problems in children, as well as higher rates of academic and life success? It seems like regular experiences really do result in so much more than tangible items. 

They’re Fun for All. Great examples of experience gifts here in Austin include memberships to kid-friendly places such as The Thinkery, The Austin Zoo, and more. These experiences are great for both adults and kids of all ages, making it possibly more expensive up front, but less expensive in the long run – not to mention enjoyable for the entire family.

They Enrich Your Kids’ Lives. Fun activities such as pottery making, ice skating, or bowling will help your kids develop new skills and participate in activities that can truly add such value to their lives. Imagine the feeling of your child discovering a new lifelong passion from an experience you gave them.

Don’t get me wrong – We love gifts! We are adapting the following in our home this season to keep a balance:

  • Something you want
  • Something you need
  • Something to wear
  • Something to read

In the past, we have been guilty of present overload. In the end, it simply results in a cluttered playroom and the accumulation of more stuff. It’s true — the holidays just aren’t the same without the amazing feeling you get of giving someone the perfect gift and watching their face light up. I do think, though, that our culture values material possessions more than we probably should, and incorporating experience gifts in your holiday budget is a great way to promote family bonding and enrich the lives of your kids.

Are you opting for experience gifts this year? Tell us below!

Our Top 20 Holiday Movies

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Our Top 20 Holiday Movies

Rebecca Cole, Cofounder, Mom

November 30, 2018

As the weather gets a bit cooler and the holiday season nears, I love nothing better than snuggling up with the kids to watch Holiday movies.

It’s high time for some Humble Bumble.

Over the years we have purchased several sets of movies and we love picking out one each day to watch and get us into the Holiday spirit.  Instead of having you waste time searching through Netflix or Amazon Prime, I’ve compiled a list (in no particular order) of our favorites (both old and new) to help you find movies the whole family will love.

Meet me in St Lois (1944)

Christmas in Connecticut (1945)

It’s a Wonderful Life (1946)

Miracle on 34th Street (1947)

Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer (1964)

A Charlie Brown Christmas (1965)

Dr Seuss’ How the Grinch Stole Christmas (1966)

Frosty the Snowman (1969)

A Christmas Carol (1971)

The Year Without a Santa Claus (1974)

A Christmas Story (1983)

National Lampoon’s Christmas Vacation (1989)

Home Alone (1990)

The Muppet Christmas Carol (1992)

The Nightmare Before Christmas (1993)

The Santa Clause with Tim Allen  (1994)

I’ll Be Home for Christmas (1998)

Elf (2003)

Love, Actually (2003)

The Polar Express (2004)